There should be no attachment--- to any object or any mode of life. You must be absolutely free. If you want to have the true yogic attitude, you must be able to accept everything that comes from the Divine and let it go easily and without regret. The attitude of the ascetic who says, “I want nothing" and the attitude of the man of the world who says, “I want this thing" are the same. The one may be as much attached to his renunciation as the other to his possession.
You must accept all things--- and only those things--- that come from the Divine. Because things can come from concealed desires. The desires work in the subconscious and bring things to you which, although you may not recognise them as such, nevertheless do not come from the Divine but from disguised desires.
You can easily know when a thing comes from the Divine. You feel free, you are at ease, you are in peace. But when something presents itself to you and you jump at it and cry out, “Oh, at last I have it", then you can know for certain that it dose not come from the Divine. Equanimity is the essential condition of union and communion with the Divine.
The Mother
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